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Huck & Finn in Spain's avatar

Wise advice, my friend, regarding handling of the ego. Friend or foe, they are not always the same.

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Janet Goh's avatar

What or who has stepped on your path and given you the gift of looking at your life differently? ⬅️

You taught me a great deal about being in a healthy relationship n how it looks like when I watch you n your husband live in harmony. Thank you very much, my dear sister.🙏🥰

After I came back from Canada n broke up with my boyfriend, I still didn't notice I was in other unhealthy friendships.

Until very recently, I made a new friend. The kind of friendship we have is unlike anything I ever had. It makes me reflect on all my past relationships n realised how much I let them influenced me. It is a blessing that I finally understand what a healthy relationship feels like n how I had lowered my standard to keep people around.

Now, I no longer entertain people who comes to me with their dramas n gossips. I've stop interacting with people who don't keep their words or only converse on a superficial level.

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Terry Pottinger's avatar

Gosh Janet, what a year of growth and realization for you! These experiences can be added to your repertoire of wisdom now, and oh the things we will learn from you!💖 (And thank you lil’ sis ~ I read Jeff your words and he was smiling ~ we love you💞)

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Janet Goh's avatar

Yeah! I told my daughter that your relationship with Jeff is the first healthy one I have ever witnessed. She said that's becos I didn't have much connections n I have not seen much. That's kinda true cos I like to keep to myself n live in my own bubble. Hahaha!🤣

Maybe it's due to my giving nature n didn't have any boundaries. I kept bumping into people who tried to teach me the same lesson over n over again. Until I learned to set healthy boundaries, people who are align will show up.

I'm blessed to have great people like you around to show me what a healthy relationship looks like. Thank you once again, my dear sister n brother-in-law! 💕✨️🤗🌻

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